Showing posts with label JT Eberhard. Show all posts
Showing posts with label JT Eberhard. Show all posts

Monday, April 21, 2014

People Worth Your Attention - Count Dolby von Luckner

I first encountered Count Dolby von Luckner (Dale DeBakcsy) at the 2013 American Atheists convention a year ago in Austin.  He had a table there, where he would draw pretty much anything requested.  His notebook of sketches was packed with awesome.  The clear standout was the Taftaroo (Howard Taft plus kangaroo), which was later paired with Tesla riding a velociraptor.


That year, JT Eberhard got Iron Man punching Jesus.  I had no good ideas until after I got back home.  But this year, I had one that I'm pretty happy with.


The inspiration for this request was one of my favorite criticisms of religion, Mark Twain's "The Fly".



To see Dale's other work:

The Vocate

Frederick the Great: A Most Lamentable Comedy Breaching Time and Space

He's also a contributors for a few publications:

The Freethinker
Philosophy Now
American Atheists Magazine
Secular World
New Humanist
Free Inquiry

Monday, March 10, 2014

David Silverman Goes To CPAC, Some Atheists Miss The Point

As soon as American Atheists announced they were going to CPAC, they got nearly as much fight from atheists as they did from the conservatives who got them kicked out.  Dave Muscato's personal (not in his official capacity with American Atheists) response to one such complaint is the best defense of the effort that I've seen so far.
If an atheist is being discriminated against for religious reasons, or is being intimidated such that s/he's staying in the closet about her atheism, or being forced to pray in a government space, or being forced to learn religious mythology in science class, etc, it is not our place, as an atheist-rights nonprofit, to treat that person any differently regardless of whether she was a conservative or a liberal. We still fight for her because that's what we do.
While there, Dave Silverman said something about abortion that resulted in some atheists getting upset at him.
“I came with the message that Christianity and conservatism are not inextricably linked,” he told me, “and that social conservatives are holding down the real conservatives — social conservatism isn’t real conservatism, it’s actually big government, it’s theocracy. I’m talking about gay rights, right to die, abortion rights –”
Hold on, I said, I think the Right to Life guys who have a booth here, and have had every year since CPAC started, would disagree that they’re not real conservatives.
I will admit there is a secular argument against abortion,” said Silverman. “You can’t deny that it’s there, and it’s maybe not as clean cut as school prayer, right to die, and gay marriage.”
People were upset over that for a variety of reasons.  JT Eberhard debunked them so well, I was compelled to tweet this about it:
It's well worth the read.  It says exactly what I was trying to explain some, that the argument against Silverman is not based in reality.  It was all I had to say about the matter until I read a few other pieces from the perspective JT was challenging.

On the blog Reasonable Faith, objection to even going to CPAC was repeated.
So, they’re closet atheists? “A lot of them, yes.” And beyond that, he says, “a vast majority of Christians here would support atheists being part of the movement.” Well, they need all the help they can get.
Iffy. There may be a lot of atheists lurking about. But ever since Edmund Burke the conservative tradition has emphasized the need for religious institutions and religious indoctrination to ensure social order. Even an atheist might endorse religion if they think it will keep the masses in check. I’m reminded of Emerson’s line that his aunt was not a Calvinist but wished that everybody else was.
They're much more likely to keep going with the religious line if the atheist community keeps telling them they're not welcome.  Why would they want to join us if we're telling them they're not welcome?  On the other hand, if we show ourselves willing to support them in their atheism (without necessarily supporting all of their politics), they'll be more likely be openly atheist around the Christian Right that dominates American conservatism.

I don't think it's unreasonable to say we can agree that bad arguments won't hold weight if they lose the protective veil of religion & the vagueness of gods.  Getting conservative atheists (who do exist) to be openly atheist is a step toward this end.  Shunning them just because they have different politics is a step away from it.

Jason Thibeault's response to the hullabaloo was much longer, and thus much more wrong.  I've generally liked what I've seen from Thibeault, but on this issue, he's so intensely wrong I simply cannot speak up.  If I addressed all the wrong things, this post would be way longer than it already is, but some the overall point needs addressing.
People are upset about this, and I strongly feel, rightly so. I’m pretty upset about it too. Not that Silverman is explicitly anti-choice, because he’s later apparently multiple times clarified that he’s not personally convinced by those arguments. I’m mostly upset that he raised the issue of secular arguments for conservative social causes, thus painting himself into a corner where he could be trapped into having to weasel out of a specific counterpoint that easily undermined what he was saying. I’m further upset that by hedging on this issue, he gives cover to people who think he means there’s a valid, cogent argument against the right of a mother to choose whether to be pregnant.
He knows Silverman isn't anti-choice, so he's just upset that Silverman admitted that there are secular arguments against abortion.  Those arguments do, in fact, exist.  The other option Silverman was to lie.  I tend to prefer honesty over lying.  I expect Thibeault has a similar stance, despite his inaccuracies here.

He claims Silverman hedged & painted himself into a corner.  Also nonsense.  Thibeault's post goes through a lot of mental gymnastics & hypotheticals to justify this stance, but it's all entirely unnecessary and done for reasons I cannot figure out.  It's especially confusing because he stated the plain truth in the middle of all of it.
He did not say that there was a valid, cogent argument against abortion. Only that there’s a secular one. 
That's it.  He only said there was a secular argument against abortion.  Because there is.  The quality of that argument was completely irrelevant to what Silverman was talking about there and counterproductive to his entire purpose for being there.  He was there to show conservative atheists that it's okay to be openly atheist.  Not to pick fights with them.  There's nothing wrong with saving the arguments for later, and doing so need not imply malice or incompetence.
But my criticisms are entirely predicated on the face value of what he said, without reading anything extra into it.
They're really not.  His criticisms are entirely reliant on reading more into it.  Entirely reliant on a pile of completely unnecessary hypotheticals, "what ifs", and the complaint that he didn't make a point to argue against abortion right then & there.  That last bit is the crux of this.

Silverman is accused of painting himself into a corner while simultaneously being accused of avoiding the argument.  It cannot be both.  But that incoherence fits the rest of it.  The argument against Silverman here is so bad and so desperate, it includes some blatantly inaccurate statements.
There’s even a secular argument for prayer in schools. But first you have to have a secular prayer, to eliminate the religion from the context of the consequence as well as the argument. When you do that, you’re left with, essentially, arguments for the American Pledge of Allegiance, which is still said in most states. It’s a vocal exhortation to an entity that is not a deity, said mostly to remind yourself and others around you that you are affiliated with that entity. Only in this case, it’s a country, not a god.
There, by definition, cannot be a secular argument for (school led) prayer in school.  Prayer is explicitly religious.  "Secular" explicitly means "without regard to religion".  The example of the Pledge of Allegiance is a huge stretch, to the point of just being flat out wrong.  The Pledge is not prayer.  And since 1954, it's not even secular. And even though, it's currently religious, it's still not prayer.  It's not TOO a god.  It merely references one.  My money, before I fix it, isn't praying either.

Silverman is accused of hedging because he didn't go off message by not going after abortion at that moment.  It's like his famous "Tides go in" encounter with Bill O'Reilly.  He got criticism for not correcting O'Reilly on the air.  I was among those criticizing him initially, until I realized why I was wrong.  Rather than letting O'Reilly derail the conversation, Silverman staid on message.  He wisely saved the argument for another time.  He did his job.

I'm sure I will end up criticizing Silverman at some point.  While quite good at his job, he's not infallible.  And I have a big mouth.  But if/when I do, it will be based on something he actually said or did.  And it won't be something as silly as an over-hyped complaint about one instance where he didn't do what I specifically wished he'd done in one fleeting moment.  Especially not one where he said something accurate and staid on message, like what happened in this instance.

So far, my only complaint about David Silverman since joining American Atheists is that he hasn't grown the devil beard back yet.

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

My Actively Engaged Father Made Me An Atheist

Thanks to JT Eberhard & Vyckie Garrison sharing it, I found an interesting article in my feed today.

"Did your absentee father make you an atheist?"

The article is about the republishing of a book I had not previously heard of, "Faith of the Fatherless: The Psychology of Atheism" by Paul C.Vitz.  The premise of this book is that people become atheists because of absent or abusive fathers.

As you would expect from such an idiotic stance, he supports it by cherry picking atheists with bad fathers and believers with good fathers.  He calls this cherry picking his "evidence" of his "hypothesis".  He ignores contrary evidence, like the quote from Eberhard in the article praising his father.

If Vitz's cherry picking counts as evidence, why wouldn't Eberhard's childhood discount that evidence?  How about my own childhood?  My father was Christian, and he certainly was not absent.

My father intentionally worked early hours so he would be home when I got home from school.  He was involved in both my Boy Scout troop and the Church youth group I participated in.  I got my love of gaming from my father.  Even with my father being away occasionally for military duties, my memory is of a father who was there.

My atheism is a direct result of my father's active role in my childhood.

My father was the primary source for my critical thinking skills.  He taught me how to discern fantasy from reality.  He encouraged my interest in science.

My father is a big part of why I don't relate to the stories of trauma I constantly hear from atheists about how their Christian parents have mistreated them.  My father knew I was atheist before I did.  He never pressured me about it.  He never attempted to guilt me into believing.  He never attempted to convince me with apologetics.  The only thing he ever said to me about it was to tell me that I was "a better Christian than most Christians", which told me both that he knew I was atheist and that he was okay with it.

But, of course, my father doesn't disprove Vitz wrong any more than his claims of evidence prove him right.  It's all anecdotal, which has no place in evaluating a hypothesis.  I make no claims about the truth of his claims, because I haven't researched it or seen any real research on the subject.  I have my suspicions, but that would be as useless as Vitz's cherry picking.  I'd certainly be interested to see it studied for real, though.

Vitz's drivel is nothing but hate speech.  Christians intent on hating will welcome his pseudoscience.  For them, it's something to reinforce & rationalize their hate.  It's like racists who see the statistics of how many Blacks are convicted compared to Whites as evidence that Blacks commit more crime.  They welcome whatever they think backs up their prejudices.

For Christians who don't hate, I expect they'd be as offended by Vitz as I am.  For instance, if my Christian mother, who, with my father, raised 2 sons who are atheists, knew about Vitz's claims, she'd see it as an insult to the memory of the husband she's spent the last 4 years grieving and fully expects to see again in Heaven.

Bigots like Vitz don't do anything to help with their religion.  All they do is reveal themselves, and their fans, as ignorant assholes.  They're so eager to hate on atheists, they make up shit like this rather than argue within reality.  They don't seem to care in the slightest that it means bashing good Christians, like my parents, in the process.

Vitz calls my father "defective".  I called him "Dad".

Go fuck yourself, Paul Vitz.

Monday, September 23, 2013

Apostacon, In One Photo - Plus Some Others

David Silverman, Photobomber
Photo Credit:  Biblename Foto[1]
Some Apostacon[2] organizers were taking a picture during the "Meat" Ball and David Silverman joined in.  Nothing sums why Apostacon is Apostawesome better than this picture.

Although, there's a few others from the costume party well worth sharing here.  Starting with, Silverman's reaction to the Flying Spaghetti Monster.

Photo Credit:  Biblename Foto[3]
Photo Credit:  Biblename Foto[4]
Photo Credit:  @Apostacon[5]
Skepticon's[6] Micah Weiss as a Tie Fighter
Photo Credit:  Biblename Foto[7]
Photo Credit:  Biblename Foto[8]
Photo Credit:  Biblename Foto[9]
Photo Credit:  Biblename Foto[10]
And, yes, I've plugged Biblename Foto[11] in two posts in a row[12].  He's that fucking good.  See here[13] for the entire album of photos most of these are taken from.

I'm not quite done talking about Apostacon.  I've got at least one more planned.  For now, it's just the fun pictures and some bragging about some praise we received this morning[14].

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1.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=384954464965172&set=pb.288486691278617.-2207520000.1379990124.&type=3&src=https%3A%2F%2Ffbcdn-sphotos-g-a.akamaihd.net%2Fhphotos-ak-frc3%2F981596_384954464965172_590448480_o.jpg&smallsrc=https%3A%2F%2Fscontent-a-dfw.xx.fbcdn.net%2Fhphotos-ash3%2F1230015_384954464965172_590448480_n.jpg&size=960%2C1200
2.  http://apostacon.org/
3.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=384953631631922&set=a.384952888298663.1073741853.288486691278617&type=3&src=https%3A%2F%2Ffbcdn-sphotos-b-a.akamaihd.net%2Fhphotos-ak-prn2%2F1277673_384953631631922_212152041_o.jpg&smallsrc=https%3A%2F%2Fscontent-b-dfw.xx.fbcdn.net%2Fhphotos-prn2%2F1376431_384953631631922_212152041_n.jpg&size=800%2C1200
4.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=384953268298625&set=a.384952888298663.1073741853.288486691278617&type=3&src=https%3A%2F%2Ffbcdn-sphotos-d-a.akamaihd.net%2Fhphotos-ak-ash3%2F1273267_384953268298625_1193310202_o.jpg&smallsrc=https%3A%2F%2Fscontent-b-dfw.xx.fbcdn.net%2Fhphotos-prn1%2F32410_384953268298625_1193310202_n.jpg&size=800%2C1200
5.  https://twitter.com/Apostacon/status/381604101827866624
6.  http://skepticon.org/
7.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=384953898298562&set=pb.288486691278617.-2207520000.1379990124.&type=3&src=https%3A%2F%2Ffbcdn-sphotos-c-a.akamaihd.net%2Fhphotos-ak-ash3%2F1272237_384953898298562_696829085_o.jpg&smallsrc=https%3A%2F%2Fscontent-a-dfw.xx.fbcdn.net%2Fhphotos-ash3%2F558289_384953898298562_696829085_n.jpg&size=800%2C1200
8.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=384953381631947&set=a.384952888298663.1073741853.288486691278617&type=3&permPage=1
9.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=384954078298544&set=a.384952888298663.1073741853.288486691278617&type=3&permPage=1
10.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=384954524965166&set=a.384952888298663.1073741853.288486691278617&type=3&permPage=1
11.  https://www.facebook.com/BiblenameFoto
12.  http://aparticularblogbyaparticularatheist.blogspot.com/2013/09/apostacon-finally-done.html
13.  https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.384952888298663.1073741853.288486691278617&type=1
14.  http://www.patheos.com/blogs/wwjtd/2013/09/apostacon-has-set-the-standard-for-atheist-conferences/

Sunday, September 22, 2013

Apostacon... Finally Done

I'm finally home from Apostacon[1].  Walking into the house felt like getting home from a long road trip, even though it was a 20 minute drive from home.  I'm exhausted from a great weekend.  And I'm far from who put the most into this, so I can only imagine how exhausted the main organizers are.

At these conventions, I usually don't spend much time watching the talks[2].  This time was even more so.  I only got to see 4 of the talks, and 2 were only because they were during lunch (Shelley Segal[3] & Dan Barker[4]).

Photo Credit:  Biblename Foto[5]
I was so exhausted, I nodded off during Amanda Knief's talk despite her being one of my favorite people on Earth.  I also got myself a signed copy of her book, The Citizen Lobbyist: A How-to Manual for Making Your Voice Heard in Government[6], and am excited to read it.  If you're at a conference she's speaking at, she's a must see.

Photo Credit:  Biblename Foto[7]
Another must see is Fred Edwords[8].  He's a genius.  He knows many things about organizing groups, and he has a way of telling us these things in a way that makes you motivated to go do it.  If you ever want to start a group and need help getting it going, the help of Fred Edwords is invaluable.  And he's dedicated to providing that help.  Atheism simply wouldn't be the same without him.

Photo Credit:  Biblename Foto[9]

I'm sad that I missed Matt Dillahunty's mentalism show.  Especially considering how impressed I saw people were with it.  It was so involved that we had to clear the room for him to set up.  Sadly, it was the only thing we didn't record (at Matt's request because he's got some special plans related to it).

Luckily, Matt wasn't the only thing people were impressed with.  It's a huge relief to have had Apostacon go so well.  Attendees really seemed to like it.  I've seen several positive reviews on the Facebook.

Photo Credit:  Biblename Foto[10]
JT Eberhard has had nothing but high praise for us[11].  That's a lot of pressure for next year.  Although, we've already got some ideas for next year, and have already had our first meeting for next year.

I think my favorite part of the weekend was seeing Jamila Bey wearing a shirt familiar to me.

Photo Credit:  Biblename Foto[12]
She bought a shirt for REASON[13], Omaha's skeptics group and our oldest existing non-theist group.  Seeing someone of prominence, who I respect. give some love to a group I love makes me happy.

Photo Credit:  Biblename Foto[14]
Another highlight was a conversation I had with Greg Lammers, American Atheists' National Affiliate Director[15].  It's always good to see him, since he's the kind of guy you're always glad to see, but this time was especially good.  I learned about American Atheists' plans for upgrading their support of local groups, including polling groups for what kind of support they'd want and potentially customizing it for each individual group.

I'm sure I'm missing a lot, but I'm sleep deprived so that's inevitable.  Plus, I'm saving certain bits to put into their own posts.

Some great pictures of the event are up on Biblename Foto[16], with more promised to come.

Next stop is Skepticon 6[17].  Based on what Skepticon organizer, Micah Weiss, has said, Skepticon is sure to even better than it has been in the past.  I won't go into it any more than that because I don't want to ruin their surprises.  But it's going to be good times.

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1.  http://www.apostacon.org/
2.  http://aparticularblogbyaparticularatheist.blogspot.com/2013/04/why-i-come-to-atheist-conventions.html
3.  http://www.amazon.com/s/?_encoding=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&field-keywords=shelley%20segal&linkCode=ur2&sprefix=shelley%20se%2Caps%2C226&tag=omahathe-20&url=search-alias%3Dpopular
4.  http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1569756775/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1569756775&linkCode=as2&tag=omahathe-20
5.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=384469755013643&set=pb.288486691278617.-2207520000.1379910182.&type=3&src=https%3A%2F%2Ffbcdn-sphotos-g-a.akamaihd.net%2Fhphotos-ak-prn2%2F1264653_384469755013643_1918970101_o.jpg&smallsrc=https%3A%2F%2Fscontent-a-dfw.xx.fbcdn.net%2Fhphotos-frc1%2F580285_384469755013643_1918970101_n.jpg&size=1200%2C960
6.  http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1939578019/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1939578019&linkCode=as2&tag=omahathe-20
7.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=384468758347076&set=pb.288486691278617.-2207520000.1379910229.&type=3&src=https%3A%2F%2Ffbcdn-sphotos-f-a.akamaihd.net%2Fhphotos-ak-prn1%2F1075398_384468758347076_586575868_o.jpg&smallsrc=https%3A%2F%2Fscontent-b-dfw.xx.fbcdn.net%2Fhphotos-prn2%2F1375727_384468758347076_586575868_n.jpg&size=1200%2C960
8.  http://unitedcor.org/national/page/fred-edwords
9.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=384469281680357&set=pb.288486691278617.-2207520000.1379910182.&type=3&src=https%3A%2F%2Ffbcdn-sphotos-f-a.akamaihd.net%2Fhphotos-ak-prn2%2F1294429_384469281680357_741267513_o.jpg&smallsrc=https%3A%2F%2Fscontent-b-dfw.xx.fbcdn.net%2Fhphotos-prn1%2F14513_384469281680357_741267513_n.jpg&size=800%2C1200
10.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=384110405049578&set=pb.288486691278617.-2207520000.1379910230.&type=3&src=https%3A%2F%2Ffbcdn-sphotos-d-a.akamaihd.net%2Fhphotos-ak-prn2%2F1094527_384110405049578_1320002432_o.jpg&smallsrc=https%3A%2F%2Fscontent-b-dfw.xx.fbcdn.net%2Fhphotos-prn2%2F1186164_384110405049578_1320002432_n.jpg&size=1200%2C800
11.  https://twitter.com/jteberhard/status/381202089143046144
12.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=384469915013627&set=pb.288486691278617.-2207520000.1379908327.&type=3&src=https%3A%2F%2Ffbcdn-sphotos-f-a.akamaihd.net%2Fhphotos-ak-ash3%2F857805_384469915013627_1086066699_o.jpg&smallsrc=https%3A%2F%2Fscontent-b-dfw.xx.fbcdn.net%2Fhphotos-prn2%2F1240016_384469915013627_1086066699_n.jpg&size=1200%2C800
13.  http://www.reason.ws/
14.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=384469175013701&set=pb.288486691278617.-2207520000.1379910182.&type=3&src=https%3A%2F%2Ffbcdn-sphotos-e-a.akamaihd.net%2Fhphotos-ak-ash3%2F856770_384469175013701_375635843_o.jpg&smallsrc=https%3A%2F%2Fscontent-a-dfw.xx.fbcdn.net%2Fhphotos-ash3%2F1374175_384469175013701_375635843_n.jpg&size=800%2C1200
15.  http://news.atheists.org/2013/05/07/american-atheists-names-greg-lammers-as-national-affiliate-director/
16.  https://www.facebook.com/BiblenameFoto
17.  http://skepticon.org/

Friday, September 13, 2013

Atheist Conference's Website 'Hacked'

This morning, Apostacon[1] announced on their Facebook[2] that their website had been hacked.  The hackers left signs all over the site and even affected the pricing of the conference tickets.  The good news is we know who the hackers are.

Cartoon ninjas.


With what they did to the Speakers page[3], they seem to have implicated two of the speakers in this crime as well.

Sarah Morehead as a ninja
JT Eberhard
Some of the other speakers have taken on the pirate role, to fight off the ninjas.

Darrel Ray as a pirate
Jamila Bey as a pirate
I can't tell which side David Silverman is on based on his hat.


I suspect that you've figured out by now that they weren't actually hacked.  It's a clever campaign by the Apostacon people to lower prices for one day and get some attention.  Anyone following their Facebook should have seen some hints of this coming.

August 25
You're Next[4]
August 26
Not a butter knife[5]
August 29
Nunchucks on the poop deck[6]
August 31
Pirate surgeon?[7]
September 2
Weird nails[8]
September 4
Sketch of the suspect[9]

September 10
I guess pirates don't play jacks[10]
September 13
Ninjas reveal themselves[11]

These ninjas might not be very good at ninjaing.  They foreshadowed their attack for weeks and have revealed their departure time (prices go back up at midnight tonight).  But anyone familiar with Shirt Woot already knows that cartoon ninjas aren't always good at their jobs[12].

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1.  http://www.apostacon.org/
2.  https://www.facebook.com/Apostacon
3.  http://www.apostacon.org/speakers/
4.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=506464889428603&set=a.143615919046837.37149.134097119998717&type=1
5.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=506871406054618&set=a.143615919046837.37149.134097119998717&type=1
6.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=508125502595875&set=a.143615919046837.37149.134097119998717&type=1
7.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=509017545840004&set=a.143615919046837.37149.134097119998717&type=1
8.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=509628425778916&set=a.143615919046837.37149.134097119998717&type=1
9.  https://scontent-a-dfw.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn2/q71/1231209_510475369027555_1543215635_n.jpg
10.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=513276575414101&set=a.513276615414097.1073741827.134097119998717&type=1
11.  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=514409421967483&set=a.143615919046837.37149.134097119998717&type=1
12.  http://www.amazon.com/s/?_encoding=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&field-keywords=unstealthiest%20ninja&linkCode=ur2&rh=i%3Aaps%2Ck%3Aunstealthiest%20ninja&sprefix=unstea%2Caps%2C269&tag=omahathe-20&url=search-alias%3Daps

Tuesday, September 3, 2013

What To Do When Someone Says Something You Don't Like

For a variety of reasons, Calvin & Hobbes was a huge part of my childhood.  If any piece of fiction can define me, it's Calvin & Hobbes.  I identified with Calvin in ways I didn't fully appreciate until years after Bill Watterson stopped writing it.  Calvin's a loner, primarily preferring to spend his play time alone.  He's misunderstood.  But he's still happy, because he knows what he wants and what he likes.

If you saw Firefly during its first run and were mortified at its premature cancellation, then you know a sliver of what I felt when I learned Calvin & Hobbes was ending.  I still had the books, but I knew it meant no more new Calvin & Hobbes.  And even with how I felt, I understood and agreed.  Even the end of Calvin & Hobbes is part of who I am today.

Bill Watterson was sick of the corporate pressure to sell out[1].  He was being pressured to do merchandising, but he felt that would take away from the art.  Everyone involved, from the syndicators to Watterson, to the readers knew how much money he was walking away from.  It would have easily been millions.  Personally, I thought then, and still do, that Calvin & Hobbes merchandise would have dwarfed Garfield[2], which was everywhere at the time.  For Bill Watterson, his artistic integrity meant more than money.  It was inspiring, and it may be the single biggest influence on the way I view money today.

I'm so into Calvin & Hobbes that when a friend shared this[3] today, I immediately recognized the drawing style.  The message wasn't unfamiliar to me either.  I suppose you could say that Calvin & Hobbes defines my childhood, and its absence defines my adulthood.

So, when I saw that the Onion took a shot at Bill Watterson[4], I didn't like it.  The fact that the article is 2 years old is irrelevant, because it was new to me.

I typically enjoy The Onion.  One of my favorite things is still their bit about the trailer for Iron Man[5].  But the post about Watterson felt almost like an attack on a big part of my identity.  I had 2 choices in how to react.

I could take that post as representative of The Onion's entire character, take it personally offensive, completely write off The Onion, and begin telling people how evil The Onion is.

Or I could realize that not everyone is me.  Not everyone shares my opinions on everyone, so they might be offended by different things.  I could understand that my perception of this one post is not representative of the whole Onion.  I could understand that my perception of that one post isn't even representative of that one post.

I chose the latter.  It is the reasonable of the 2 choices, after all.  But too often, when presented with a similar situation, I see people choosing the former.

Ron Lindsay says something offensive, so people call for boycotts[6].  He did later apologize, which was accepted[8] by many.  But the damage to CFI will continue[8] because so much of the initial reaction wasn't to say he'd done something wrong.  Much of the initial reaction was to completely write him off.

JT Eberhard said something some feminists didn't like[9], so they lose their shit[10] and vilify him[11].  Some people declared JT dead to them, while others did the same to Jen & Greta.  JT & Jen McCreight eventually made up, but neither blogged about it.  So many who blindly wrote off either of them probably still hate whichever one they decided was the devil.

Rebecca Watson suggests guys shouldn't creepily corner women in elevators[11] and the Internet loses their goddamn minds and is STILL freaking the fuck out[12] on her[13].

On Twitter, people of all ideologies block at the drop of a hat.  There's enough willing to block unknown masses that the Block Bot[14] was popular enough to get the attention of the BBC[15].

Heads of national organizations make one mistake, and people call for their heads.  Popular bloggers get into one disagreement and their readers take sides as if a full on civil war is happening.  Complete strangers block each other on a whim.

This won't solve our problems.

If we don't argue, we don't learn.  If we don't argue, we don't teach.  If we don't deal with people who we disagree with, we don't have our ideas challenged.  And all ideas should be challenged.  It's how we figure out which ideas are good and which ideas should be shed.  It's how we are able to abandon bad ideas, even when they've been held dear for two thousand years.

If you're too eager to get rid of people over one disagreement, you'll end up with an ever shrinking circle jerk of people more and more less likely to ever challenge you.  You end up building an echo chamber.  All you get from an echo chamber is the reinforcement of bad ideas.  Even if the people challenging us are assholes about it, they're still giving us the opportunity for your ideas to be improved.

Don't put yourself in an echo chamber.  Have the courage to let your ideas be challenged.

You'll be better for it.

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1.  http://www.chron.com/life/books/article/Why-Bill-Watterson-quit-Calvin-and-Hobbes-1952901.php
2.  http://garfieldminusgarfield.net/
3.  http://www.slate.com/content/dam/slate/blogs/browbeat/2013/08/27/watterson_advice_large.jpg
4.  http://www.theonion.com/articles/bill-watterson-writes-illustrates-shreds-new-calvi,21240/
5.  http://youtu.be/YBM3j7x4Lcw
6.  http://skepchick.org/2013/06/so-much-for-center-for-inquiry/
7.  http://freethoughtblogs.com/greta/2013/06/24/accepting-ron-lindsays-apology/
8.  http://freethoughtblogs.com/greta/2013/06/24/accepting-ron-lindsays-apology/#comment-103522
9.  http://www.patheos.com/blogs/wwjtd/2013/08/on-the-bria-crutchfield-outburst-at-the-great-lakes-atheist-convention/
10.  http://freethoughtblogs.com/blaghag/2013/08/on-silencing-anger-to-silence-minority-voices/
11.  http://youtu.be/QqU9JFbtucU
12.  http://www.youtube.com/all_comments?v=QqU9JFbtucU
13.  http://skepchick.org/page-o-hate/
14.  https://twitter.com/The_Block_Bot
15.  http://youtu.be/R0UqtZMqxT8

Sunday, July 14, 2013

I'm With JT Eberhard, Who Is With Ed Brayton

Joe Klein's Time cover story[1] took a cheap shot[2] at atheists, claiming there are no secular people doing charity.  Ed Brayton wrote to them[3] about it.  So has JT Eberhard[4].  And so have I:
I cannot help but be disappointed by the recent remarks in your publication by Joe Klein regarding atheists and charity[1].  He wrote: 
"But there was an occupying army of relief workers, led by local first responders, exhausted but still humping it a week after the storm, church groups from all over the country — funny how you don’t see organized groups of secular humanists giving out hot meals — and there in the middle of it all, with a purposeful military swagger, were the volunteers from Team Rubicon."
On top of this being a demonstrably untrue statement , it's unnecessarily hurtful.  Atheists face enough problems[6] without a cover story from one of the world's most respected publications taking cheap shots at us.  Nearly all of us have been told we deserve to burn in Hell forever.  Many atheists have a justified fear of their family or employers knowing of their lack of belief.  I've had friends disowned from family solely due to their atheism.  Others have lost jobs.
The word "godless" has as a listed definition[7]:  "wicked; evil; sinful."  In other words, people treat atheism as synonymous with being evil.  We are constantly faced with claims that we cannot be moral without a god.
Atheists are often prohibited from holding public office in a variety of ways.  The US Constitution states[8] "no religious test shall ever be required as a qualification to any office or public trust under the United States," but several states still have laws specifically prohibiting us from qualifying for elected positions.
The general electorate often refuses to vote for anyone who doesn't profess a belief in a god.  While people recently have become more willing to vote for an atheist for President[9], we've still got a long way to go[10].
Atheists face these issues and many others[11].  We don't need a voice as prominent as Time making things worse.  That's why I'm writing to ask you to make up for it by doing a story on atheist charities such as The Foundation Beyond Belief[12] or Recovering From Religion[13] & their Hotline Project[14].  Because the Klein article was a cover story, I think it's fair to ask that this story be given equal treatment.  Plus, it's not like they're not worthy of such coverage.  
Foundation Beyond Belief recently reached the milestone of a million dollars raised[15].  That amount includes more than $45,000 related to the Oklahoma tornadoes, the very disaster Klein accused atheists of not helping after.  And Recovering From Religion helps people negatively impacted by religion, because of attitudes expressed by Klein, the other issues I listed above, and various others.
I hope you'll make things right rather than let Klein's slap in the face go uncorrected.
Time should make up for giving that bigotry the credibility that comes from a cover story in their publication.  And it's not outside of the realm of possibilities.  The more requests they get, the more likely they are to do a story on atheist charity.

So, please write to them and politely request they do so.

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1.  http://nation.time.com/2013/06/20/can-service-save-us/print/
2.  http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2013/06/25/joe-klein-offers-a-pathetic-rebuttal-in-response-to-criticism-of-his-attack-on-atheists-in-time-cover-story/
3.  http://freethoughtblogs.com/dispatches/2013/06/27/tell-time-to-stop-dismissing-secular-generosity/
4.  http://www.patheos.com/blogs/wwjtd/2013/06/im-with-ed-brayton-its-time-to-email-time/
5.  http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2013/05/30/what-are-atheists-doing-for-the-victims-of-the-oklahoma-tornado/
6.  http://usatoday30.usatoday.com/news/religion/story/2011-12-10/religion-atheism/51777612/1
7.  http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/godless
8.  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No_Religious_Test_Clause
9.  http://usatoday30.usatoday.com/news/religion/story/2012-07-26/athiest-poll-president/56516466/1
10.  http://abcnews.go.com/politics/t/blogEntry?id=16623786
11.  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Discrimination_against_atheists
12.  http://foundationbeyondbelief.org/
13.  http://recoveringfromreligion.org/
14.  http://religion.blogs.cnn.com/2013/06/04/atheists-to-start-1-800-hotline/comment-page-8/
15.  http://foundationbeyondbelief.org/node/1867

Monday, April 1, 2013

Why I Come To Atheist Conventions

This was my second American Atheists Convention[1][2].  My first was last year right after the Reason Rally[3], which was also my first atheist convention in general).  I've been to two more since, last year's Midwest Freethought Conference[4] (now called Apostacon[5][6][7]) and Skepticon 5[8][9].  I've enjoyed the conference so far, but I don't come to these things for the speakers.  Even with my social anxiety and lack of people skills, my reason for coming to these things is to meet other atheists.

It's not that I have a problem with having speakers at these things.  I enjoyed seeing some of them.  David Silverman[10][11][12], Greta Christina[13][14], JT Eberhard[15][16], Matt Dillahunty[17][18], and Katherine Stewart[19][20] all gave good talks that I'm glad I didn't miss.  Jay Jay French[21][22] , Pete Stark[23], and Keith Lowell Jensen[24][25][26] were highlights as well.  But, at these things, I'm usually not interested in more than half the speakers.  Even with some of the people who I really like (Christina Rad[27][28][29], Hector Avalos[30], Hemant Mehta[31][32]), I'm not that interested in their talks.  Then there's the ones I wanted to see but missed due to a mix of time and exhaustion (Edwina Rogers[33], Richard Carrier[34], Dale McGowan[35][36], Jerry DeWitt[37][38], Cara Santa Maria,[39][40] Seth Andrews[41][42], Ophelia Benson[43][44], Edwin Kagin[45], Teresa MacBain[46][47], and the Panels on Women in Atheism and Atheism vs Humanism).

Despite that impressive list of speakers, I do have some issues with the focus on them.  I've noticed, what seems to me at least, too much focus on the stage.  I'm guilty of it myself.  At the Reason Rally, I was so focused on the stage that I forgot to go see the protesters, something I had really looked forward to doing that day.  By focusing on the stage so much, I completely missed out on meeting some of the more than 20,000 other atheists there.  It was caused by a mix of excitement about the event and the weather, but it still happened.

Coming to these things is definitely worth it.  I just need to not forget that the real magic of it isn't on the schedule or on the stage.  It's in the hotel lobbies and at the bars.  It's when organizers for local groups meet and share ideas.

The speakers can sometimes have some interesting things to say or get people motivated to action, but they can also often be merely preaching to the choir and unnecessary.  I would love to see speaker lists that are less packed, with more room for actually socializing with the other atheists.  But without that, I'll keep on ignoring half the lineup on stage and mingling as best as this awkward geek with social anxiety is capable.

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1.  http://atheists.org/convention2013
2.  #AACon13
3.  http://reasonrally.org/
4.  http://youtu.be/8NCaRpkcGKk
5.  http://www.apostacon.org/
6.  @Apostacon
7.  http://www.facebook.com/Apostacon
8.  http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLDyZC8lflYBvkxmJGFeAihtz-OoDqVMy7
9.  @RealSkepticon
10.  http://www.atheists.org/
11.  http://youtu.be/2BCipg71LbI
12.  @MrAtheistPants
13.  http://freethoughtblogs.com/greta/
14.  @GretaChristina
15.  http://www.patheos.com/blogs/wwjtd/
16.  @jteberhard
17.  http://www.atheist-experience.com/people/matt_dillahunty/
18.  @Matt_Dillahunty
19.  http://www.thegoodnewsclub.com/about
20.  @kathsstewart
21.  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jay_Jay_French
22.  @jayjayfrench
23.  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pete_Stark
24.  http://www.youtube.com/user/klfly/videos?view=0&flow=grid
25.  @keithlowell
26.  http://www.facebook.com/kljfans
27.  http://www.youtube.com/user/ZOMGitsCriss
28.  http://freethoughtblogs.com/cristinarad/
29.  @ZOMGitsCriss
30.  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hector_Avalos
31.  http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/
32.  @hemantmehta
33.  http://secular.org/node/637
34.  http://freethoughtblogs.com/carrier
35.  http://www.parentingbeyondbelief.com/
36.  @MemingOfLife
37.  http://youtu.be/BqaN0gZtQ-A
38.  @jerry_dewitt
39.  http://www.huffingtonpost.com/news/cara-santa-maria
40.  @CaraSantaMaria
41.  http://www.thethinkingatheist.com/
42.  @ThinkingAtheist
43.  http://freethoughtblogs.com/butterfliesandwheels
44.  @OpheliaBenson
45.  http://freethoughtblogs.com/kagin
46.  http://www.npr.org/2012/04/30/151681248/from-minister-to-atheist-a-story-of-losing-faith
47.  @Teresamacbain